Instead of betraying a sense of insecurity, don’t even bring up you weight at all.
And remember that there is a thin line between a good sense of humor and self-deprecating humor.
Smart people always say that you have to love yourself in order to be loved by someone else, and we couldn’t agree more.
Even if you do lose a ton of weight, there’s no guarantee that you are going to look like Hugh Jackman.
They can enjoy the fun part of dating and the excitement of connecting with new people, without worrying about what the other person thinks.