His life is his job, my life is career too, but not as extreme as it is for him.He’s not curious about how you’re doing and he’s not trying to win you over. If he did, he would take action to talk to you and see you more. I know this is hard to hear but HE HAS TO WANT MORE and unfortunately, you can’t MAKE him want more. I want to get to know him better, to speak to him more and see him more often. So far you’ve seen him three times, but just once a month and he doesn’t contact you in between. If you take a step back and look at this objectively, not from what you want but from what is happening, you will get a clear picture.
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If you want to see more of a guy who dates you occasionally, first think about what his sporadic dates tell you about him.“Dear Ronnie The Dating Coach, I’m a career focused 40 year old woman who has never married and has no kids. Ultimately, he enjoys your company, but he’s not craving more. He gets to come and go and you have no options to change this.
How do I bring that up without seeming desperate and/or needy? This is a man who is content seeing you infrequently and doesn’t desire contact in between.
When you tell him you like spending time with him and compliment his choices or sense of humor, he’ll feel appreciated which reflects well on you.