Overall, more informal standard greetings did very well.
So rather than a simple “hey,” or “hi,” go for a “howdy,” which received almost a 45% response rating!
Or if you feel compelled to bring it up, say something like, “I’m not interested in meeting anyone else online. Trust us, she’s getting a boatload of uninspiring messages like “Hi, how are you?
” and “You’re gorgeous, I’d love to chat.” If you want to get her attention, try doing something a bit more personal.
People normally like talking about themselves, so opening with a question about him or her to get the ball rolling is a good way to improve your response rate. Questions are the gas that keeps a convo going, so think of something more interesting or specific to ask than a boring “what’s up?