She asked him to play drums on "I Will Not Forget You" on her second album, Solace.
The family lived in West Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada.
In September 2008, the couple separated and later divorced.
In 1990 he graduated from California's Musicians Institute (Percussion Institute of Technology).
In the early 1990s, he met Mc Lachlan while on tour with Lava Hay.
She tried a new genre in 2007 by attempting to go country with a new label.